{"id":4151,"date":"2019-04-02T13:02:29","date_gmt":"2019-04-02T11:02:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.map-mh.cz\/?p=4151"},"modified":"2019-04-02T13:02:29","modified_gmt":"2019-04-02T11:02:29","slug":"jiz-vime-kde-se-tvori-a-bori-sebevedomi-deti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.map-mh.cz\/map3\/2019\/04\/jiz-vime-kde-se-tvori-a-bori-sebevedomi-deti\/","title":{"rendered":"Ji\u017e v\u00edme, kde se tvo\u0159\u00ed a bo\u0159\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"

Jsme r\u00e1di, \u017ee interaktivn\u00ed p\u0159edn\u00e1\u0161ka Zde\u0148ka Okle\u0161\u0165ka<\/a> na t\u00e9ma Kde se tvo\u0159\u00ed a bo\u0159\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed<\/strong>, kterou realiza\u010dn\u00ed t\u00fdm MAP II Mnichovohradi\u0161\u0165sko zorganizoval ve st\u0159edu 27. b\u0159ezna 2019, oslovila \u0161irokou ve\u0159ejnost – na akci se se\u0161lo rovn\u00fdch 100 \u00fa\u010dastn\u00edk\u016f, pov\u011bt\u0161inou z \u0159ad rodi\u010d\u016f!!! A p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 je pro n\u00e1s \u010d\u00edst i Va\u0161i zp\u011btnou vazbu, kter\u00e9 se n\u00e1m dost\u00e1v\u00e1, p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00edme alespo\u0148 jeden p\u0159\u00edklad z mnoha: “Pro m\u011b – jako m\u00e1mu, kter\u00e1 se intuitivn\u011b sna\u017e\u00ed v\u00e9st sv\u00e9 d\u011bti k samostatnosti – bylo mimo\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b p\u0159\u00ednosn\u00e9 pojmenov\u00e1n\u00ed pocit\u016f, vazeb a z\u00e1konitost\u00ed souvisej\u00edc\u00edch se sebev\u011bdom\u00edm d\u011bt\u00ed. Kdy\u017e m\u00e1 \u010dlov\u011bk pojmy, l\u00e9pe se mu p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed. A samoz\u0159ejm\u011b v pod\u00e1n\u00ed pana Okle\u0161\u0165ka to byl doslova z\u00e1\u017eitek.”<\/em><\/p>\n

P\u0159edn\u00e1\u0161ka odstartovala velmi p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fdm \u00favodn\u00edm sloganem: “D\u011blat chyby je norm\u00e1ln\u00ed. Nepodl\u00e9hejte chmur\u00e1m, pokud objev\u00edte n\u011bjakou svou chybu! Ka\u017ed\u00fd d\u011bl\u00e1 n\u011bco dob\u0159e.” \u00da\u010dastn\u00edci se dozv\u011bd\u011bli, co je to sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, k \u010demu ho pot\u0159ebujeme, jak\u00e9 m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt, jak ho m\u016f\u017eeme nab\u00fdt, kde se sebev\u011bdom\u00ed bo\u0159\u00ed a jak ho tvo\u0159it.<\/p>\n

Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt zdrav\u00e9 a p\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u00e9, nezdrav\u011b n\u00edzk\u00e9 \u010di naopak nezdrav\u011b vysok\u00e9. Jak m\u016f\u017eeme sebev\u011bdom\u00ed nab\u00fdt? T\u0159eba t\u00edm, \u017ee za\u017eijeme \u00fasp\u011bch \u010di naopak ne\u00fasp\u011bch, ale tak\u00e9 z toho, co n\u00e1m o n\u00e1s \u0159eknou druz\u00ed lid\u00e9. Velmi d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 je za\u017e\u00edt si vlastn\u00ed \u00fasp\u011bch (t\u00edm n\u00e1m vzroste sebed\u016fv\u011bra, prohloub\u00ed se sebev\u011bdom\u00ed), nicm\u00e9n\u011b i ne\u00fasp\u011bch (i d\u00edky ne\u00fasp\u011bchu se prohlubuje na\u0161e sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, by\u0165 sebed\u016fv\u011bra stoup\u00e1 pouze m\u00e1lo).<\/p>\n

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Jak m\u016f\u017eeme bo\u0159it sebev\u011bdom\u00ed u druh\u00fdch? T\u0159eba t\u00edm, \u017ee d\u011btem bereme jejich pokusy (ze strachu o n\u011b jim br\u00e1n\u00edme v pln\u011bn\u00ed jejich v\u00fdvojov\u00fdch \u00fakol\u016f) – ide\u00e1ln\u00ed je d\u00edt\u011b pouze instruovat. Br\u00e1n\u00edm d\u011btem nau\u010dit se soci\u00e1ln\u00edm dovednostem (nap\u0159. v ordinaci u l\u00e9ka\u0159e, kdy je nenech\u00e1me promluvit o jejich zdravotn\u00edm stavu atd.), obstar\u00e1v\u00e1me jejich v\u011bci, vnucujeme jim na\u0161i cestu, nenech\u00e1v\u00e1me je n\u00e9st odpov\u011bdnost, tla\u010d\u00edme na v\u00fdkon, ne na zralsot d\u011bt\u00ed, nep\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u011b reagujeme na jejich ne\u00fasp\u011bch, m\u00e1me pot\u0159ebu d\u011bti neust\u00e1le hodnotit, chr\u00e1n\u00edme je v\u00edc, ne\u017e je t\u0159eba, vstupujeme do jejich spor\u016f s ostatn\u00edmi.<\/p>\n

Jak tedy jinak? Rodi\u010d by m\u011bl b\u00fdt pozorovatelem<\/strong> nam\u00edsto \u010dinitelem, m\u011bl by nechat d\u00edt\u011bti jeho \u010das, jeho cestu a zp\u016fsob, jeho po\u010det pokus\u016f, jeho temperament a jeho z\u00e1jem. Rodi\u010d by m\u011bl d\u00edt\u011b podporovat<\/strong> nam\u00edsto kritizovat – m\u00edsto chyb hledat pozitiva, m\u00edsto chv\u00e1ly oce\u0148ovat, m\u00edsto kritiky nab\u00eddnout reflexi, m\u00edsto v\u00fd\u010ditek empatii. M\u011bli bychom br\u00e1t d\u011bti jako partnery<\/strong> – sv\u00fdm postojem \u0161et\u0159it d\u016fstojnost d\u011bt\u00ed, poskytovat jim zp\u011btnou vazbu, nebrat jim jejich odpov\u011bdnost, nechat jim nad\u011bji.<\/p>\n

Mal\u00fd bonus pro \u00fa\u010dastn\u00edky p\u0159edn\u00e1\u0161ky: prezentace z p\u0159edn\u00e1\u0161ky v pdf form\u011b (VYPO-SEBEV\u011aDOM\u00cd-bt<\/a>) – jako p\u0159ipomenut\u00ed pro p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00e9, \u010di jako nov\u00e9 po\u010dten\u00ed pro ty, kte\u0159\u00ed se z nejr\u016fzn\u011bj\u0161\u00edch d\u016fvod\u016f nemohli dostavit.<\/p>\n

Velk\u00e9 pod\u011bkov\u00e1n\u00ed pak pat\u0159\u00ed panu \u0159editeli \u010cerm\u00e1kovi ze Z\u0160 Studentsk\u00e1, za poskytnut\u00ed prostoru s\u00e1lu jeho \u0161koly a jeho \u00fapravu p\u0159ed p\u0159edn\u00e1\u0161kou i \u00faklid po jej\u00edm skon\u010den\u00ed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Jsme r\u00e1di, \u017ee interaktivn\u00ed p\u0159edn\u00e1\u0161ka Zde\u0148ka Okle\u0161\u0165ka na t\u00e9ma Kde se tvo\u0159\u00ed a bo\u0159\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed, kterou realiza\u010dn\u00ed t\u00fdm MAP II Mnichovohradi\u0161\u0165sko zorganizoval ve st\u0159edu 27. b\u0159ezna 2019, oslovila \u0161irokou ve\u0159ejnost – na akci se se\u0161lo rovn\u00fdch 100 \u00fa\u010dastn\u00edk\u016f, pov\u011bt\u0161inou z \u0159ad rodi\u010d\u016f!!! A p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 je pro n\u00e1s \u010d\u00edst i Va\u0161i zp\u011btnou vazbu, kter\u00e9 se n\u00e1m dost\u00e1v\u00e1, p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00edme alespo\u0148 jeden p\u0159\u00edklad […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.map-mh.cz\/map3\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4151"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.map-mh.cz\/map3\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.map-mh.cz\/map3\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.map-mh.cz\/map3\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.map-mh.cz\/map3\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4151"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.map-mh.cz\/map3\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4151\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4154,"href":"https:\/\/www.map-mh.cz\/map3\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4151\/revisions\/4154"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.map-mh.cz\/map3\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4151"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.map-mh.cz\/map3\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4151"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.map-mh.cz\/map3\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4151"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}